Man’s Life Destroyed By Orgasms
Meet Dale Decker, the man who has 100 orgasms per day – and hates every single one of them. He suffers from Persistent Genital Arousal Syndrome, which he developed in September 2012 when he slipped a disk in his back.
Without knowing anything about the condition, one might assume that he is a lucky man. However, Decker claims his life is ruined by his illness.
“Imagine being on your knees at your father’s funeral beside his casket – saying goodbye to him and then you have nine orgasms right there, while your whole family is standing behind you. It makes you never want to have another orgasm for as long as you live. There’s nothing pleasurable about it because even though it might feel physically good – you’re completely disgusted by what’s going on. If you’re in public, if you’re in front of kids – it’s disgusting and it can break you real fast. It happened to me at the grocery store and when it was over there were around 150 people looking straight at me – why would I leave the house when something like this can happen.”
The condition has cost this unfortunate man many of his friends and has also affected his relationship with his family. His wife supports him as much as possible, but finds it difficult to live with him nowadays.
“We really struggle right now as he is unable to work and supply for his family and I feel like all the strain is on me. It’s really upsetting, we don’t do things that man and wife should do and we argue over things that should not be affecting us. I really miss the old Dale, we used to have a lot of fun and one day I pray that he will come back to me. Maybe the doctors will find a cure for this – I don’t know – I just really hope that they do.”
Dr. Dena Harris, a gynecologist who has mainly worked with women who suffer with PGAS, confirmed that his condition is a serious one and said some kind of treatment is possible.
“It’s clear Dale is really suffering and I’m sure there are some people who will say that this is just in his head. But it’s not – it’s a serious medical condition and I just hope he gets the help he so desperately needs. Being aroused can be a wonderful thing but this is not like arousal, it’s not even sexual. It’s a horrendous spasm and it can be terribly painful. Dale looks like he is in pain – not just emotionally but physically as well. I’ve got to be honest, there is help available but if Dale doesn’t get help soon then there could be huge risks in the future. Suicide is always a concern when people suffer from this condition – they feel like they have no other way to escape it.”